Lack, pain, hurt, imperfection, even trauma can be effectively treated with self love that is connected to Source as well. Everything hinges on it essentially – and for the Twin Flame journey that is no different at all. Often we have learned to associate self love with egotism and there is a stimulus to avoid it thus.
That is simply uninformed and superficial; for sure, egotism or worse: narcissism is something to not promote, but don’t these people understand that the only love that exists is inner love that you yourself allow to come in? How else is that ever going to happen without self love?
The confusion here is that people think that it is the ego that you are feeding with self love. But the truth is rather that you let the ego fall on its rightful place through which it becomes so calmed down that it virtually disappears, through letting the love in. And then you end up having nourished the soul.
Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water and simply do away with these false morals. Start loving yourself. In todays workbook that the 17 Love Game participants are working on, they’ll get a couple of invitations to start doing exactly that. This way, you start the work to uncover your natural soul abundance.
Money and love: always a combination that has many question marks for many people – and that is actually why I put it in the Love Game immediately at day 2! Because it is so daily life, we all handle money every single day after all.
Traditionally in spirituality it is said that the love of money leads you astray, not money itself, but the love of money. In other words: when you place money as the goal unconnected to Source, Union, love, connection, consciousness et cetera.
But when you love correctly, that is to say you love God, the Universe, Divine Mother or however you connect best with the core and source of all, then you can within that relationship also deal with money. Money will be fruitful in that relationship, peaceful too, even loving.
You can spend it on a premeditated budget in which there is place to give to yourself first, give yourself Twin Flame guidance, healthy food and relaxation and then the rest of your daily costs. That’s how I did the journey, and I arrived at the consciousness state of Harmonious Union, then was initiated as the teacher of it too.
It’s such a fantastic game you can play with your money, because you can chose to invest it in what brings the biggest leverage. And I found is that is your relationship with Divine Mother through the earthly place you are guided to, that makes your Union come true, which then starts to give back infinitely.
Being a Twin Flame is your actual identity behind all other ideas of yourself that you might have. The journey is to bring that forward from the background of your consciousness to the front. Fear and shame will hold you back from that. It can be good to acknowledge that you are afraid of being seen and feel shame for who you truly are.
Being honest is the start of that consciousness work that works. The fact that there is the promise of Divine romance, healing sexuality and everything you always desired at the other end of things, makes it palatable to look into such forces active in yourself and undo them. The reward sounds big, until you truly experience it for real and it is much bigger than you ever realized.
That is how it goes! It comes forward from your unconscious and ends up prominently in sight for everyone to see, much more juicy then anything you ever imagined could come forth out of you. This fills your world now. And because it heals you, you become freed up to also start to give back. The world becomes the place where you have giving opportunities.
What a blessing all-round!
All of us need to heal from the ego, on the Twin Flame Love journey, because ego’s cannot come in Union nor stay inside of it should the ego have brushed the goal of Union. Essentially the ego is your willpower that is out of order, has gone wild and is running ahead of you.
When the ego is healed, it simply takes its place as your soul connected willpower and doesn’t run ahead of you anymore. It becomes a helping power inside of you that can strengthen you to take action. It can aid you to take care of your physical life, simply!
This is the main saboteur inside of everyone. It might present in so many different ways. The Twin Flame inner work comprises of loving yourself to such a degree that it will indeed feel loved and then take its rightful place, through which you will eventually see it didn’t exist as a separate entity at all ever. Healed.
Only the heart can be truly creative. Otherwise it is just an exercise of wit but without a soul. Have you ever needed to survive on conjuring up some thought that would be reproduced in front of other people to impress them or get a good score from your teacher? Yeah, not very satisfying after all, right?!
True creativity has a heart and shares something deeper than only ideas. To make it flow through you, you’ve gotta dive deeper than survival. However, if we need survival, then give that to yourself first! When that is basically arranged, go for the deepening you crave and attract everything that is overflow through it.
Overflow attracts overflow. Now you have it. This is where you always want to live. Move there with everything you own and relate to. You deserve it – and your relationships as well. This is how the world becomes a better place, by feeding yourself first and then overflowing.
Twin Flame Love works with but also deserves an entire lifestyle in which you embed the required Twin Flame inner work into a bed of soft pillowy support. It is a lifestyle you chose because of the sheer value it supplies to you that you experience every single day. But it is not really a lifestyle at the same time, because it is not an invention; rather it is the blessed result of your surrender.
